Senin, 18 Agustus 2008

MAN NEEDS A WOMAN

IN GENESIS 2 :18 : GOD said ," it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him an help meet for him."
we know from this scripture this was the one lack in Adam's life.,namely a woman who could be his companion, receive his love and share his dominion over the earth. so, GOD created the woman and presented her to Adam.
The first marriage was GOD was doing. Marriage was not a human idea but a divine institution.now, how about celibacy? to my mind, in corinthian 7:6-8 Rabby Paul said and discusses about this topic to explain that celibacy is only a gift fro GOD, not that celibacy is a holier state than marriage because of man's normal waves of libido, marriage can contribute to his spirituality, for it is better to marry than to be burn. I corinthian 7:9.
it was GOD said :' it is not good that the man should be alone.

hebrew 13 :4: "Marriage must be honored among all and the marriage bed kept undefiled , for GOD will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers.
So, the woman is to be a servant to her husband. every man needs that " help" that his wife only can provide. when GOD formed Eve(the first woman) , GOD did so by means of a surgical process. GOD removed a RIB FROM ADAM,the man was no loner complete in himself. the woman whom GOD made from man's RIB is needed to complete the man.

To tell you the truth ,...... I have been made this website using my wife's name the most beautiful gift and the most satisfying provision GOD has made for me.

THE PURPOSE OF THE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP

TWO BECOME ONE, THIS IS THE BIBLICAL VIEW OF MARRIAGE. THIS MUTUAL RELATIONSHIP RESULTS IN MUTUAL FELLOWSHIP, WHETHER IN SORROW AND JOY.WHERE THERE IS A MUTUAL INTEREST IN GLORIFYING GOD ,LIFE'S BURDEN BECOME LIGHTER.BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER AND PRAY, SHARE TOGETHER. WE MUST SHARE OUR FEELINGS IN LOVE AND CONFIDENCE.
LET ME TELL YOU THE MOST IMPORTANT THINS ,....DON'T JUDGE AND BE JEALOUS OR SUSPICIOUS OF YOUR HUSBAND OR YOUR WIFE.
EVERY PERSON WANTS SOMEBODY TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED. THERE IS A PLEASURE IN BOTH GIVING AND RECEIVING LOVE.(TAKE AND GIVE). PROVERBS 5:18 : " LET THY FOUNTAIN BE BLESSED AND REJOICE WITH THE WIFE OF THY YOUTH.

IF YOUR MARRIAGE BEGIN ON A TRUE CHURCH , YOU ARE INDEED FORTUNATE. BUT THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT THERE WILL ALWAYS PERFECT AGREEMENT IN ALL MATTERS. THE REAL ANSWER IS ONLY IN JESUS CHRIST, THE LORD GOD. LORD JESUS CHRIST CAN MAINTAIN HARMONY IN THE HOME IF BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE WILL SURRENDER THEIR WILL TO HIM. WHERE HIS PRESENCE AND POWER ARE FELT ,... THE PROBLEM OF MARRIAGE IS SOLVED.